When it comes to adult dating, and you know what I mean when I write “adult dating,” ice breaker conversations are certainly a more loose gig. Girls who frequent hookup sites, such as Free Adult Dating, probably aren’t worried about formal conversation starters.
But still, it remains, ice breakers, even in the hookup dating realm, can be stressful for folks. But that’s OK, I’ve got you covered.
Here are three sure-fire ways to break the ice on a hookup site with a sexy single.
Describe Sexual Fantasies
Look, you’re both here for the sex. That’s what the hookup environment is all about. But beware, this isn’t an open invitation to harass other users.
Instead, you can break the ice with a sexy girl by asking her to describe her top sexual fantasies. She may have some listed in her bio. If that’s the case, ask her to extend on those. Most adult dating sites don’t leave tremendous room for sexual fantasy descriptions, so she’s probably got a lot to say on the matter.
Ask her what her most thrilling sexual fantasies are. Has she fantasized about having sex in a plane’s bathroom, or in public?
Get her juices flowing and you’ll get to know her in short order.
Ask Her About Her Last Adult Dating Experience
Ask her to discuss the last time she met up with someone from an adult dating site. This is a great ice breaker that also reveals things she likes and the things she dislikes. You don’t want to go down the same old roads that others have.
Go Vanilla
Yep, some girls just don’t like the initial sex talk. In these cases, you might want to go a bit more conventional in your ice breaker.
Maybe ask her what her favorite sports team is, or where her favorite place to have dinner is.
Remember, adult dating is often something that is centered in anonymity so many wives may not want to disclose places they hang out.
DO NOT Talk Deep Topics
No one cares who you voted for or about how you had the two-week flu in March. Nor do they care about your narcissistic mother.
Avoid dark, dull topics that drag the energy down. The woe is me stuff is sure to knock you out of the running!
